My Home Life

Our vision is a world where all care homes for older people are great places to live, die, visit and work.

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In this section you’ll find News on MHL activities; a blog with good practice stories from care homes across the UK (don’t forget to share your own stories!); info for press and our library of resources and videos.

This is your Mums home

What makes a good care home?

ten yearsMum never wanted to go into a care home; she used to say “they are all full of old people sitting around sleeping.” She based this on her visits to ‘old people’s homes’ when she used to entertain them as a member of her local church club choir – when she was in her eighties!

Her memory was deteriorating, and it was becoming more obvious that despite the home care she was receiving in addition to the many hours of family care, this was not enough to keep her well and safe at home.

We found a lovely care home. I was given a ‘fob’ to open the front door and I was told this is your Mum’s home, so come and go as you please; just visit her like you did before.

Mum was so happy, she had her own room, personalised with photographs and memorabilia, she had her own TV and her daily newspaper delivered.

She went out in the minibus, she enjoyed activities, she had her hair done, and her feet! She was also able to attend a church services on Sunday which was very important to her. There was such a friendly relaxed atmosphere, no set meal times or routines, everything revolved around how people were and what they wanted to do and at what time. Person-centred care at its very best. Mum enjoyed many impromptu sing-a-longs, and an old film on TV or making cakes, which were then eaten for tea. She loved hats and beads and would select a hat and beads from the coat stand in the corridor whenever she passed by I never knew what she would be wearing on her head when I visited!

The wonderful staff knew Mum so well, her likes, dislikes and little foibles; they treated her with compassion, devotion and humour.

There were phone calls on days when Mum was having a really good day, very bright and alert and staff wanted me to know so that I could visit her and enjoy this.

So many things that made a difference; when Mum went off her food, a carer went out and bought a variety of snacks which were then left for her to eat at will and when Mum returned from hospital following a fall, carers were able to rehabilitate her and get her walking again where the hospital had failed.

At the end of her life Mum became weak, spending much of the time asleep. During that time she was never alone, and everything was done to keep her comfortable. The last days of her life were calm and serene; she was cared for by carers who knew and loved her and this gave me great comfort.

Many thanks to Marianne Manser for sharing her story.

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My Home Life Suffolk

“I am taking out sharing, friendship, and continuity of My Home Life Suffolk – lets meet again”

These were the words of one care home manager who, along with 20 others, attended a day together last week to celebrate the completion of the leadership support programme and to explore how they can continue the momentum in Suffolk.

This impressive group of managers have taken great strides in leading their homes to deliver quality of life and are now associates of the My Home Life national movement.

Suffolk 2


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Homecare Managers complete Leadership Support programme

Essex homecareCongratulations to these managers in Essex who have completed the first Domiciliary Care Leadership Support programme with My Home Life. We have loved working with these great people who have and continue to do amazing work in promoting quality of life for our frailest citizens.

If you’re interested in the Leadership Support programme or the other packages of support MHL offer, visit our Working Together section.

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Celebrating ten years of My Home Life

ten yearsA birthday present to our network

Over the coming 12 months, we will be sending out a host of tools, badges, stickers and briefings to our network to help them celebrate the great things that they are doing in care homes and share their great stories with us!

Celebrating the great work that you are delivering

We will be taking part in events across the country (list of UK events coming soon) to celebrate the great work we are doing and keep sharing stories of best practice on our website.

Creating new insights and evidence

We will be updating the evidence base for quality in care homes and sharing new insights and stories that come out of the year’s celebrations.
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New MHL posters!



New images of the evidence base of My Home Life are now available to download!

These posters show all the components of the MHL vision – as well as how they all fit together. Huge thanks to the team in MHL Scotland who have been working hard to bring these together!

You can download posters on the individual aspects of the evidence base:

Best practice themes (read more here)

Relationship centred care (read more here)

Caring Conversations (read more here)

Being appreciative

As well as posters of all the components of the evidence base and how they lead to quality of life in care homes. You can also find the new posters under ‘Posters’ in our Resources library.


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New MHL bulletin in the January practice update

Our latest email update is below – free to all – sign up on this page

“If one thing is certain it is that care homes operate with uncertainty and upheaval every day… we’ve got through it before, we can get through it again.”Looking after yourself cover line

Dear friends,

Thank you so much for your tips on supporting managers and care home teams to take care of themselves at times of stress.

We’ve collected some of your advice into our new bulletin ‘Looking after yourself and those around you’, out now in Care Management Matters and on our website.

Hard copies available on request – email or call us on +44 207 040 5776. Continue Reading

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“I have had a lived experience of a Northern Irish care home doing really, really well in the dying process.”

Eina McHugh

A story from Slieve na Mon Nursing Home in Northern Ireland has been featured by the BBC – telling a tale of a family being supported through their father’s death.

The item, from a care home whose manager recently completed the My Home Life Leadership Support programme, tells the story of the McHugh family.

We’re delighted to see such a wonderful story in the press about the brilliant end of life care provided by the nursing home – not only for Mr McHugh himself, but for his whole family. It’s a testament to them that the family felt so moved they wanted to share their story with the world.

You can hear the interview on BBC Radio Ulster.

And read ‘How can we wake our father in a nursing home?’ on the BBC News website.


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Call for advice – practice update from MHL

The current edition of our practice update is out now – sign up for your free email update here.

Dear friends,

Your advice? Sue, a care home manager writes:

“Things are really hard at the moment for the whole team in the care home, I know my staff are looking over their shoulders for the next round of cut backs. I’m feeling the pressure myself too. Any tips for how I can better support myself and the team to get through this tough time?”

Get in touch with your tips:

  • What do you do to take care of yourself?
  • What’s helpful for supporting your team (even when you’re low on time and money)?

Email call us on 0207 040 0260.

Best wishes,

The My Home Life Team

P.S. For anyone interested in Enhancing health in care homes – there’s still time to register for a 1st December event on that topic.

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Nominate a Welsh care home for the MHL Cymru Award 2016

Nominations close

The annual Age Cymru Gala Dinner and Awards Ceremony  will take place at the Cardiff Marriott on 11 March 2016. The awards night is an extremely important event for Age Cymru as it gives us a chance to reward those people who have significantly improved the lives of older people in Wales. It is also a great way to raise the profile of the public perception of care homes.

You have the opportunity to nominate a care home for the My Home Life Cymru Award, tell us how they support, involve and enhance the quality of life of their residents. Nominate a care home by telling us about the work they do and share stories of the day to day life of the home that gives people the opportunity to continue to enjoy life. This award recognises exceptional practice epitomising the My Home Life ethos and approach. My Home Life Cymru is a successful programme which works with care homes across Wales to ensure residents enjoy fully enriched lives.

For further information and to nominate your home for the My Home Life Cymru Award, please contact the team on 029 2043 1555 or email

More details on the Gala and Awards are available on the Age Cymru website.

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